TehPoncho

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socialanxietythings:

Just wanted to share a post I found elsewhere on the interwebs. It may sound a bit harsh, but I think it’s accurate, and it helped me to set myself free, in a sense, from my mental prison.

So many people labour under the yoke of futile anxieties. Internal blather furrows their brows,…

I know this meant well, but this made me feel a whole lot worse about everything.

How can this post be liked? It is simply horrid, taking such a negative view to make you feel better about yourself? It’s like the constant barrage of negative viewpoints towards war.

Fighting for peace is like f#$*ing for virginity. Same principle is shown here, how can you expect someone to feel good about themselves when you’ve obviously just made them feel like nothing, that they don’t matter, that they mean nothing to the world, therefore, whatever way they dress/appear won’t be judged. It’s a horrible way to make it appealing to those struggling with issues about being judged by others.

Point is, good job! If you were able to make them not feel judged anymore, now you’ve simply given them something else to worry about, that they simply don’t matter. You’ve opened the door for depression and now they may start contemplating suicide. I know it’s a bit of an exaggerated leap but I don’t care, it took me a long time to feel like I was actually worth something and if I had read this during those times of my life, I would’ve actually succeeded in killing myself.

Don’t read this is all I ask, and if you do, please keep a good resolve about you because this is what causes people to have problems. There were good intentions here, however, I didn’t get that from what I’ve just read. Sorry to rant, just upset me is all.

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    This is very true outside of high school. I blame school for instilling this sort of attitude. My anxiety lessened...
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    So many people labour under the yoke of futile anxieties. Internal blather furrows their brows, incessantly, niggling...
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    How can this post be liked? It is simply horrid, taking such a negative view to make you feel better about yourself?...
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